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Oh I do like to be beside the seaside.

So the old song goes :-

            I do like to be beside the seaside!
            Oh, I do like to be beside the sea!
            I do like to stroll along the prom, prom, prom,
            While the brass band plays tiddleyompompom!

It is a song that dates back in the UK music halls and was written in 1907. Here is an old film that might amuse.

                                    

                                        Basil Rathbone from “The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes” (1939)

Why is it that the sea seems to draw us to it? It does for me. The sound of the waves. The ever changing patterns of waves. The smell. The energy. The relaxation.

I was such a lovely day, and the seaside called.

Brighton, an English seaside town on the south coast is about an hour journey from Kingston upon Thames, (click to see video) my home town. The train was quick and easy, five stops from Norbiton Station (click to see SouthWest train arriving at Norbiton Station) to Clapham Junction, then a fast train from Clapham Junction to Brighton with only two stops.

Exiting from Brighton railway station, the sea can be seen, but it is a long walk down to the prom or sea front.

How many times as a young boy, did I long to be the first to see the sea when we went away on holiday with my mother and father?

    “First one to see the sea gets six pence,” my father always said, and always I got the six pence.

Brighton beach is pebbles, not a sandy beach, which plays havoc on ones feet, and can be quite uncomfortable to sit on, but thousands do, especially on such a warm sunny day.

The sea water is a little too cold in May to go swimming for the masses, only the brave few could be seen in the calm waters. But, there were the odd one or two bikinis to be seen, and bare chests as people tried to get a suntan. I think I caught the sun as my face is quite red now.

It was relaxing just to spend an hour on the steep pebble beach between the two piers.

Brighton had two piers. A pier is a strange British custom, mostly built and dating back to pre First World War.
 
Ther are either a wooden or metal structure, built out to sea, so that holiday makers could promenade up and down the pier taking in the sea air. Often there would be a theatre built on the far end, and amusement arcades and kiosks placed along the length. Many would have fun fairs or lunar parks.

                                                               Brightons pebble beach  Brighton’s pebble beach

              Brighton beach and pier  Brighton pier

                                                                                              Brighton beach and pier

                                                    Fun fair or lunar park on Brighton prom Fun fair or Lunar Park

Due to the materials used in the construction of piers, many have been washed or blown away, or as in the case of one of the Brighton piers, burned down.

                                                      The remains of one of Brighton’s piers

Another tradition of the seaside experience is a fish and chip meal, perhaps with mushy peas, and in my case a glass of Champagne. Sorry folks, I am a man of tradition, and I was hungry.

                                                    Traditional British Fish n Chips  Traditional British Fish n Chips

See A couple of hours beside the sea

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Travels

So hot in the UK

Sunday has been so hot, even for the animals. It was reported that parts of the UK were hotter than the Caribbean and the Canaries.

A squirrel too hot, splayed out  A squirrel too hot, splayed out.

I think I disturbed the squirrel from its’ sunbathing  I think I disturbed the squirrel from its' sunbathing
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Presentations Stage Hypnosis

Stage Hypnosis in Turkey

I have often been asked by participants and friends in Turkey to give a stage hypnosis show, and perhaps give a course, as I do in the UK, over two days.

I think this time is near, and with my friends at NLP-Time or NLPGrup in Istanbul, and as we have done with GAP Consultancy in Gaziantep, we may be putting on a “private show” for ex participants and friends.

Don't look me in the eyes
Don’t look me in the eyes


This will be an opportunity to meet old friends and discover new ones and ideas, whilst having a fun time together.

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Mind Maps

Mind Maps in Milano

As part of my trip to Milan in Italy, I gave a one day course in Tony Buzan’s Mind Maps.

As a BLI (Buzan Licensed Instructor) for many years, I enjoy giving this course, laying the foundations and reasons for people needing to use Mind Maps, in business life, for education, for normal personal reasons.

It comes as no surprise that people use similar systems, having had read a book, or being taught by an unlicensed trainer who does not really understand the concepts or reason behind Mind Maps, or does not know the different computer packages available, or when or how to implement Mind Maps.

Mind Maps in Milan with over 40 participants Mind Maps in Milan with over 40 participants

So having again another 40 people on the course in the Concorde Hotel in Milan, and guiding them through the process, gave me great happiness, especially seeing the results of my work and theirs.

An example of a computer Mind Map using iMindMap by Phillip Holt
An example of a computer Mind Map using iMindMap

Download your free trial iMindMap - Free Download  Download your free trial

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English Sayings PhotoReading

PhotoReading in Milano

Sitting here on the dawn of another beautiful, and what will be a very hot day here in England, I can at last sit back and reflect on the previous weeks, and the next couple of weeks in Bahrain with Philip and Leila Edwards.

After a couple of days rest in the UK, and with great difficulty, (I could find no travel agency in the UK which would sell me an Alitalia airline ticket), I booked a ticket on-line with Alitalia an early morning flight to Milan.

I usually take the early morning flight, which lands at 11:30am local time in Milano, that gives me enough time to travel to the hotel, freshen up, and prepare for the start of the PhotoReading course at 2pm. This has great benefits to me, for one it cuts down on hotel fees, gives me an extra night at home, plus there is no chance of jet lag hitting me, as I enter the “presentation” mode.

It was the first time I have provided training and worked with Gianni Golfera, and I had two courses to give, PhotoReading and Mind Maps.

I ask people to bring five books with them on the course, each of about 300 hundred pages. Four of the books should be on the same subject matter, say the Queens and Kings of England, 1492 – 1556, as I know lots of people are interested in that period of English history (not). The fifth book, again about 300 pages, should have been read, and the subject known by the participant.

PhotoReading, Milan May 2008
PhotoReading with 40 participants, Milan 2008.


Unfortunately, this was not relayed to the participants, and as the course requires us to PhotoRead or absorb these five books, plus another book, plus articles at 20,000 – 30,000 words per minute (WPM) or a page a second, I had to send the participants out to buy the required books.

A misconception of people is that once a book is PhotoRead, or the page turning has taken place with the blip page seen, that at a conscious level, they will understand all the book. This is not the case, as we have to activate the knowledge, bring the unconscious learning to the conscious mind the knowing mind, and that is the fun part, and it can go on for hours, days, or even years, as our knowledge and interest grows.

We sometimes get one participant that takes that attitude or has that belief. At times it is easy to change their understanding or paradigm, but some get stuck in the mud, believes that they should remember every single word and its’ position on the exact page. No.

So it was with one participant who despite other participants trying to help him, decided that he had completed the activation stage in ten minutes (four books), and still said he did not understand anything. One out of forty is not bad, but not good enough for me, but you can take a horse to water, but you cannot make it drink.

The rest? Happy faces, they understood, even those who had come all the way from Sardinia, to attend the course free of charge as they had taken it before.

That is the joy of training for me.

I love my job.

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NLP Thoughts Travels

Falling apart at the seams

For the last few weeks I have been rushing around in the skies between the UK, Turkey and Italy, at enjoying the company of many people both participating in, and helping with the courses and presentations I have given.

At “95”, it appears I am falling apart at the seams.

The zip in my trousers fell apart. So, it was a less expensive suit from Erol in Taxim Square, Istanbul. It was not like my last encounter, (see My Trousers are Undone) with my memory failing me.

The heels of my shoes wearing away whilst in Gaziantep. Now I know why I take glue with me on my travels.

A crown off one of my teeth coming off, and a filling in one of my back teeth falling out.

The handle from my suitcase breaking, a bad design by Samsonite. Then the locking mechanism on another Samsonite suitcase breaking. Good for Samsonite, they replaced that lock free.

The case on my new Philips computer beginning to split.

Will I get paid for the presentations I have done?

Then on a routine blood test I find that my blood sugar levels are a little high. I do not want diabetes, so I must watch my sugar intake. It is difficult when living in hotels and eating in restaurants as I seem to do. So, I was called back to the doctors. Blood pressure fine, a quick check on the blood sugar level seemed reasonable, but then.

I happened to mention a vision problem, not so much a problem but a change. I then find myself in the emergency eye hospital. Now I must await the report on that.

Oh Poo Poo, I am falling apart.

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Mind Maps Travels

Daze (days) of rest

It was a long trip back to the UK from Gaziantep in Southern Turkey with very little sleep. The delay, this time due to radar problems at Ataturk airport. I think I had about three hours sleep before catching the flight back to London.

Now I must prepare for my next trip and training in Italy this Thursday, for PhotoReading and Mind Maps, in association with Gianni Golfera, and then early Monday morning, a flight to Istanbul to give a talk at the Quantum Leadership Conference, or in Turkish, Kuantum Liderlik.  Plus, I have to catch-up on post and messages that have built-up over the last few weeks.

It is good to look back on the good times I had over the last trainings, and have much to write about but no time to do it in.

I doubt if the hotel I am booked into in Milano has free internet, unlike the hotels of Turkey, so for the next few days I will post no blogs. 

Sorry folks. Or do I hear “thank you”.

PS. If you want to tryout the software iMindMaps for free, click on the picture.

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An Evening of Stage Hypnosis in Gaziantep

It has been a long run of training in Turkey, and I am on my way back to the UK. Sitting here in the departure lounge, I find that the flight has been delayed by another hour from Gaziantep to Istanbul.

Oh Poo Poo. (click to understand)

But I can reflect on a great night I had in Gaziantep, where I was invited to a meal with participants. Over twenty attended and I gave them their first experience of stage hypnosis. (click to learn stage hypnosis)

It was great fun for all, especially those “stars” who stepped forward to be the show.

Getting the stars into hypnotic trance. Plus Zafer on the floor.  Getting the “stars” into hypnotic trance. Plus Zafer on the floor.

                                                        Keeping each other warm with hypnosis.  Keeping each other warm.
        
            She would not leave the stage, her shoes were glued to the floor.    She would not leave the stage, her shoes were glued to the floor.

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Travels

Another night, another bed

As I have said before, it seems I do not sleep in the same bed more than ten days in a row, and this trip seems to follow the trend.

I came to Istanbul for a few nights, then flew down to Gaziantep for two nights, back up to Istanbul, staying on the European side in the Seminal Hotel for a few more nights.

As the venue has been changed for the NLP Practitioner course I am now giving, to the Asian side of Istanbul, I have been move across the Bosphorus, to Kadikoy to a hotel overlooking the ferry port. Click to see video of the dolphins in the Bosphorus.

The hotel is called the Deniz Hotel, deniz means sea in English, and I was told I would have sea views.


The Deniz Hotel, Kadikoy   The Deniz Hotel, Kadikoy


The view from the 6th floor breakfast room of the Deniz Hotel, Kadikoy The view from the 6th floor breakfast room of the Deniz Hotel, Kadikoy

Well I can see an island from my bedroom window. An island with car and bus traffic racing round it.

Not an island at sea Not an island at sea


I can see the sea, if I lean out of the window, and strain to look between some buildings.

I do have a mosque opposite. Early morning prayer call starts at 5:30am. I know, it wakes me up as they call for believers from the loud speakers on the minarets.

The mosque which wakes me up at 5:30am in Kadikoy, Istanbul The mosque which wakes me up at 5:30am in Kadikoy, Istanbul


The next door room seems to have a group, (more than two) young German tourists. At least between midnight and 7am they were quiet.

It is good to have variety, to have noise, to have life about me, because it means I am alive, and long may it last.

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PhotoReading

PhotoReading in Gaziantep

A group of participants organised by Gap Consultancy in Gaziantep, met to learn PhotoReading, the ability to absorb 20,000 – 30,000 words per minute (WPM), or a page a second, with a comprehension of 80% for the purpose of the reading.

Participants of PhotoReading in Gaziantep  
Participants of PhotoReading in Gaziantep


The earth moved for us as we gained over the two and a half days information from the five individual’s books, plus articles, onto a giant Mind Map


I think the person who took the photograph was having a similar experience to the participants.
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