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A holiday

Today I leave for Spain, one weeks holiday.

We have a Timeshare in a place called Jardines del Puerto, in Puerto Banus, on the Costa del Sol, the St Tropez of Southern Spain.

I have had so much on my mind that I had forgotten until this week that it was due, Mee Len had done all the orgainising, including inviting her two sisters, Mee Chee and Mee Wah.

Oh Poo Poo. (click to understand).

I am taking loads of books and DVD’s to keep me occupied, plus my computer. I doubt if I will be posting as there is no internet in the complex the apartment is in.

I am also having to pack pajamas, as I normally sleep in the raw or nude, and walking around the flat in that state could be rather embassing. Don’t even think about it.

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Telephone Contacts, Skype v Gizmo

As many will know who have attended my courses around the world, I love gadgets, new technologies. If it is new, I have to have it, I have to know how it will work.

When VoIP (Voice over the Internet Protocol) was introduced, I knew I had to find out how it worked. Being able to use the internet to speak to the rest of the world at very cheap rates, or if you could link the two parties (or more) together, called peer to peer, to speak free of charge.

It was not long that specialised proprietary software came along that automated the system, made it easy for the public and business communities to use the technologies.

Standards were established, so that everybody would be playing on the same football pitch in the same game. Some of these were SIP, FWD, laxtel and IPtel. These standards are like the languages we speak, if a person only speaks English (say SIP), can they, will they be able to speak to a person who only speaks Turkish (say IPtel)?

The best known standard is the SIP standard, standing for Session Initiation Protocol, a language like English or Turkish, and many companies implemented this standard in their telephone equipment and software to drive the equipment.

This equipment and software was difficult to install, implement and use. I remember the first one I tried to install was a failure, well, I got it to work after much effort, but no-one else was using it in my community around the world. As with most of new gadgets, the telephones ended up gathering dust.

Then came the proprietary software Skype, (not SIP or other standard or protocol), only Skype will talk to Skype. It is free, easy to install, in fact all you do is hit one button, and away you go.

Wonderful marketing by Skype. Give it away, get market penetration, masses of customers, offer add-ons, like cheap international calls, free communication with people who have the Skype software and are online at the same time. 

They had the market to themselves, and took advantage of it. Great product.

I recently purchased another gadget the Nokia 770 tablet computer, and found that Skype would not work on it due to the operating system employed on the Nokia 770. They offered another system called Gizmo.

Gizmo
is a product offered by the creators of the SIP protocol SIPhone. It is free to download, offers very cheap international calls, and free calls to fellow Gizmo users, much the same as Skype.

There is a difference in the way the software works and the language or protocols, but that does not bother the end users, it is transparent to them, but the difference gives certain advantages of Gizmo over Skype.

The biggest to me is the ability to make free landline (PSTN, Public Switched Telephone Network) to fellow Gizmo users no matter where they are in the world.

I got my special friend in Turkey, Asu, to join Gizmo  and in her profile enter her home and mobile telephone numbers, and I likewise did the same. I asked Asu to switch off her computer or close the Gizmo software, and I called her, the call was directed to her landline and we talked. 

It cost me nothing to make the call, from the UK to Turkey.

Try it, you might like it. 


                                                                     Call me! on Gizmo.


                                                                     Gizmo Project A Free phone for Your Computer download Gizmo.



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A Recommandation from Istanbul NLP Practitioner course

Ali Ermete attended an NLP Practitioner course I recently gave in Istanbul Turkey.

Ali gives this following recommendation.


                              

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Oh how I love computers

As people who have worked with me know, for 35 years I worked in the computer industry, an expert, working at the forefront of technology as I was employed by computer manufacturers like NCR, Sperry Univac and Texas Instruments.

I was working on speech recognition, artificial intelligence (AI), back in the early 1980’s. I worked with Texas Instruments with one of the first PC’s in 1982, and using data communication again back in the 1980’s.

I know about computers and their workings, but usually I keep my mouth shut. 

In the mid 1990’s I walked away from computers, to start a new life in my career, but still playing with computing and technology.

The internet is perhaps one of the major advancements in computing, it has changed the face of the earth, how we communicate, work, live our lives. When it works it is fine.

I have a number of web sites, where people can book on courses like to learn Stage Hypnosis this September 2007, PhotoReading, or to book sessions to cure phobias, fears or gain confidence. They can contact me via emails via any of these web sites or addresses.

All works well, when it works.

The internet works by people providing services. You need an ISP, (Internet Service Provider) to give you access to the internet from your home, office or hotel via the telephone system, cable or satellite at various speeds. You need people like Skype or MSN to offer VoIP (Voice over the Internet Protocol) for free or cheap telephone calls. You need people, usually the ISP’s, to capture your emails, so when you are ready you can retrieve them and download them onto your own computer. You need people to house your web sites, so that when people from anywhere in the world need information from you, at any time of the day, they access the servers (storage computers) of this service. You need people to know where your web sites or domains (the address of the web site e.g. http://www.nlpnow.net), reside or located, where the server is.

All works well, when it works. When it doe not, Oh Poo Poo.

Some years ago, my ISP, BT (British Telecom), changed its’ service, which made it impossible for me to do what I wanted, so I changed ISP. I found an internet company Business Serve based in Lancaster in the UK, who could provide all my needs, house my web sites, capture and forward my emails, and look after my domain names. They were good, with very few problems.

In 2003 they took over Legend Communications plc a smaller based ISP in Bradford, and in 2006 became a subsidiary of THUS plc. This year, they became Demon.

Are they getting too big? Are they only interested in money? May be.

This is the second day I have had no access to my web sites, (http://www.c4more.com) nor any emails. I feel naked. I need to arrange my trip to Turkey tomorrow, people have telephoned me asking why I have not answered their emails. I need to talk to someone at Business Serve, Legend Communications, THUS or Demon, all I get is an automated answering service.

Much as I love some of the voices on these automated answering services, I object to have to pay premium rates to listen to them, only to be led round and round in circles.

Mustapha, Antonio, Fred, Hara.

That’s better.

So if I have not answered your email, or you cannot get to my web sites, (this blog site is on a different server), I apologize. 

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London Road Closed, Kingston upon Thames

7th August 2007, London Road, the main road in and out of Kingston upon Thames, towards and from London, has been closed, so that they can replace the old railway bridge.

London Road Closed, Kingston upon ThamesNLP handshake interrupt).

The lift and replacement takes place on Sunday 12th August, when I will be in Istanbul, Turkey, working hard. I feel sorry for the rail users, who will have no trains to catch. Oh Poo Poo. (click to understand Oh Poo Poo).

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Wild Foxes

I suppose we are lucky in the UK to have so much wild life in both the countryside and towns and cities.

It is not often that one can appreciate wildlife close at hand, but on a recent visit to my in-laws Joe and Mee Chee, I was able to get quite close to some foxes in their garden in Leatherhead.

                              

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Get in contact

Not by chance today I met a old friend who I had not been in contact with for a long time.

I have often thought about my friend Bill, but always put off for one reason or other making that contact. I would see pictures on the TV, the internet or in books and magazines, that would remind me of our good and bad times together. Even walking down the street, sometimes I would see someone who had the same hair style, the same posture, and my memories would go back to Bill.

So I made the effort, and made contact with Bill and we met. It was such a relief, we still got on. After a good hand shake, we talked about the good times we had together, recalling memories, asking each other about other friends.

“Where was Richard?”

“What has happened to Sidney?”

Bill told me that Sid had got together with an old friend Jenny, and that they were happy with their situation, pity really, as I know Bill had always wanted a long term relationship with Jenny. But, Bill I found out had moved away and lost contact.

Like me, Bill had failed to keep in contact.

I made a resolution to keep in contact with Bill in the future, and go out of my way to contact others.

You never know what may come up.

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Another trip to Turkey

Today I have finalised my plans for my next trip to Turkey to give training in NLP, Mind Maps and Memory skills.

The dates – should you wish to attend – will be:-

            NLP Practitioner (Society of NLP)   11th – 17th August 2007.
            Mind Maps                                      18th August 2007.
            Memory Skills                                 19th August 2007. 

More details can be found on the NLPGrup web site www.nlpgrup.com

I love my work, as I meet so many people, and together we go on a journey of discovery of how we as humans interact with and communicate with the world around us, and how we interact with ourselves. Yes interact with ourselves, with our inner mind and our conscious mind.

As we take the journey, changes happen, they have to, as every experience we encounter will have influence upon the way we understand the world, how we interpret what is happening to us, meeting new people, seeing new sights, hearing news sounds, tasting new tastes.

For some it will be a new journey, like taking an overnight bus trip to far of lands, taking a cruise ship across the oceans, or catching a flight to different countries and cultures.

Some will come across experiences that will amaze them, some will come across experiences that will shock them. It is these experiences that enrich our lives, they give us the learning to be able to cope with our future life, to see things in perspective about our previous life.

I love taking this journey with the participants, as it is like helping someone to cross a road, we also have to cross the road with them.

For me the journey we will take is a well trodden one, I have done it so many times, and it is a joyous journey, one that I also enjoy finishing, because I know I will feel good at the end.

Just like my flight to Istanbul on Friday, the journey may be difficult. There will be procedures I will have to go through, booking-in, security, there may be turbulence in the flight, the food may not be to my liking, and I do not know who or what will be waiting for me at Istanbul Antaturk airport.

One thing is for certain, the clock will continue to tick, time will not stop. The time in Turkey as I write this blog may be 12:00 mid day, people may be eating their lunch, but here in London it is only 10:00 in the morning, I have only just had breakfast.

Time as we perceive it, is only relative to our own place in space. We must learn to enjoy what we have now, for do we know what is at the end of our journey?

Let us plan for a good outcome on our journey together.

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Business Matters TV program in Sri Lanka

In 2003 I travelled to Columbo in Sri Lankato give courses in NLP, PhotoReading, Mind Maps, and was asked to take part in a TV program called Business Matters, hosted Parakrama Dissanayake.

The podcast TV progam lasts about ten minutes and will take a little time to download depending on internet speed. Enjoy.

                                             
For those wishing to take part in future courses in Sri Lanka, please visit the web site www.nlpnow-lanka.com or contact Maxwell de Silva or Hemantha Wickremasinghe on SRI LANKA 011 2345257.

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UFO’s over London

I am not one to fantasize, not one to take on board weird and wonderful ideas without investigation, but last night, Saturday 4th August, I have no explanation as to what we saw.

Saturday had been a beautiful day, cloudless, sunny and warm, and Mee Len wanted to visit her sister Mee Chee near Leatherhead, half an hour’s car ride from Kingston upon Thames.
 
We spent an evening putting the world to rights over a meal of chicken and salad, feeding the daily arrival of foxes the leftovers, and left for home about 10pm.

After putting my car to bed in the garage, we walked back to our flat through the gardens of Norbiton Hall, under a cloudless and for once a star studded sky. It is rare to see stars in London to high light pollution from street lights and the human population.

Looking up we saw two bright orange lights high in the sky, flying west to east.

flying saucerBukit Mertarjam, when the family were outside in the garden celebrating Chinese New Year. These 5 or 6 flame like lights hovered in the night sky, then one would suddenly speed up and move slowly away. It took a time that these were paper lanterns with a burner suspended in its’ balloon like structure, thus making it a hot air balloon, as seen on recent Thai Airlines adverts.

What we saw last night were not these hot air balloons they were traveling too quickly.

They were not aircraft waiting to land at Heathrow or just taken off, as there were two aircraft in the stacks to be seen and heard.

As we watched, the three lights went overhead with no sound. Helicopters would be heard, I could hear the two other aircraft.

As they flew off towards London the lights disappeared, indicating that the light source was pointing forwards and directional, thus we would not see the light from behind.

Then another light appeared flying on the same path.

Must be helicopters, perhaps military, that was the only explanation, a little too fast, but then we will never know.

Going to bed at 12:50pm, I listened to BBC Radio Five Live, and I caught the last sentences of a discussion of strange lights in the sky, but heard no concussion.

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