I traveled to Istanbul on Friday to give a NLP Master Practitioner course, but the aircraft arrived slightly late, at 10:30pm. I was worried that Salim the driver would be in trouble waiting for me.
I left arrivals hall, to be met by Salim, who speaks little English, saying something about ambulance.
Then I realised. Waiting for me was an ambulance to take me to my hotel in Kadikoy.
Down the motorways we raced, lights flashing, cars moving out of the way.
So I was not late arriving at the hotel.
Strange arrival.
Now I have to find an internet connection.
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Like music, (click for more) certain films have had a great influence on my life, and I enjoy watching time after time. I never grow tired of them.
Call me sentimental, (mental), but the Olivia Newton-John film Xanadu hits all the right buttons. In this cult movie, Olivia Newton-John portrays Kira, a Greek muse who attracts a painter dissatisfied with his career.
This musical follows the romance and the fulfillment of dreams, to the creation reality out of dreams with the dance hall called Xanadu, with the help of a retired musician played by the ever smiling Gene Kelly.
The movie includes such pop hits as Magic, Party All Over the World, I’m Alive and the title song Xanadu, played by the ELO – the Electric Light Orchestra.
My first exposure to Xanadu was in Saudi Arabia, buying cassettes of LP/CD’s to listen to, as there was nothing else to do in the early 1980’s, no cinemas, pubs, clubs, TV to watch. The music gripped me, it told a story, it was only years later that I came across the movie.
Another movie close to my heart is the black and white film called the Dambusters. This movie tells of the real life wartime story of the RAF (the British Royal Air Force) having to attack dams in Germany, to disrupt the Germans manufacturing industries, to bring the war closer to an end.
It tells the story of the dedication of the air crews, in training and to give their lives so others can live, it tells how Barnes Wallace, despite being ridiculed, worked out how to achieve the outcome needed, and that failures were a learning curve. Read the article on NOP click here.
The BBC created a radio series back in the 1970’s called The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, written by Douglas Adams. Unusually this radio series was then transformed into a TV series of the same name, and the book followed. A few years ago, a new movie was produced, but sorry to say not as good as the TV series. For a start the original robot Marvin was replaced, although, the real Marvin did play a cameo part. Marvin say one of the most outstanding statements for me:-
“I’m so depressed, I have the brain of a planet, and all they ask me to do is open the door, I’m so depressed.”
It is in the movie that we can see that the human brain always needs completion, if you ask it a question, it will always try and find the answer, if you give it the answer it will try and find what the question was.
42 is the answer.
The Wizard of OZ, the 1939 film starring Judy Garland, tells the story of a young girl trying to get home with her pet dog Toto. The only way back is to visit the Wizard of Oz. She meets friends on her journey, the Scarecrow, the Tin Man and the Lion, and together they have adventures and challenges which they overcome. When they meet the Wizard, it is then we realise we all have the same powers to meet our own challenges and adventures.
The latest film is What the Bleep Do We Know. A beautiful animation, film and documentary, telling the story of a woman going through a crisis, but coming to a realisation, that we must see things from a different perspective.
Very heavy on NLP, this film needs to be watched a couple of times to get the inner meaning, but it brings together all I teach in my courses.
The above films have a deeper meaning, a metaphor which we can all learn from.
Sentimental old me.
Mind Maps
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Mind Maps has been called “the Swiss Army Knife for the Brain”.
Developed by Tony Buzan, it is used by hundreds and thousands of people and companies worldwide. I have successfully taught Mind Maps in China, Malaysia, Sri Lanka, India, Saudi Arabia, Turkey, Italy and the UK, to individuals, public groups, schools, universities, and companies. Organisations such as HSBC Bank, Shanghai Airlines, Arrow Weld, Global Communications, Sheffield University et al.
Mind Maps can be used in many areas of our lives:-
Personal
Family
Educational
Business
Professional
What makes Mind Maps so powerful is that they use the brain as it should be used, using both sides of the brain’s hemispheres, with the use of pictures, colour and movement, key words, and progressive radiant ideas.
If we consider that the brain has two hemispheres, the left and right, the left being understood to be the logical, mathematical brain and the right being the creative brain, we can see from our educational background that we have been taught and we work very left brain. We write in black and white, in straight lines. We think in logical sequences.
We only use half our brain capacity, only our left hemisphere.
Using Mind Maps brings into play our right hemisphere, the brain that likes colour, movement, creativity, doubling our processing power.
We implement Mind Maps in PhotoReading, the ability to absorb words at 20,000 – 30,000 WPM.
I use Mind Maps for speeches, presentations, talks, and I never leave anything out.
The one day Mind Map course teaches you and your company the background, why we use Mind Maps, with loads of examples to practice.
All comes to those that wait
There is a saying in English, “all comes to those that wait.”
There is another English saying, “strike whilst the iron is hot.”
Here is another one, “if you have a problem sleep on it.”
The sayings above will all have their counterparts, or similar sayings in most cultures, as has proven in my trainings throughout the world.
Small world, isn’t it?
Many years ago in Carnaby Street, Central London, the birthplace of “mod” fashion of the 1960’s, the place to be seen with the rock stars, I came across a shop selling rings, and saw a special ring that caught my eye. For some time I pondered whether to buy the ring, but I never did, even though I returned many times to the shop, the eye stood out, but my hand never went into my pocket to get the money out to buy it.
One day, perhaps two years after initially setting my eye on the ring, I went back to Carnaby Street to buy the ring. The shop had changed. Now it was sports shirts, running shoes, no jewelry.
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I asked in the new shop where had the old shop gone, no one knew. I asked in neighbouring shops, still no-one knew.
Perhaps I become obsessive with what I do. Yes I think I do.
When I want to know something, to learn something, I search for the information, go the best to learn from them, that is why I sought-out, Paul McKenna, Ormond McGill, Joe McMoneagle, Richard bandler, John Grinder, Paul Scheele, Dr Win Wenger, Tony Buzan, Gianni Golfera, Doug O’Brian, et al, then I can teach others.
When I have a problem, I know I can solve it, perhaps using technology, I will search for the solution, and not rest until I resolve it, for example the Dualphone 3088. (click)
I searched all over London for the ring. Nothing.
Asu joined in the search. Together we would scour the jewelry shops in the back streets of Istanbul only to be offered the Turkish eye.
Asuman and myself, one evening in Kadikoy, following a strange meal in a square I think named after a duck, came across a shopkeeper that said he could get one, but next week.
I felt good, at last I had it. Or had I? No.
My search continued, Italy, Turkey, Spain, England, India. Nothing.
Then last Sunday, always searching, always seeking the impossible, the missing, I was in Covent Garden Market, I asked a stall holder, and he told me of a shop just off Carnaby Street, The Great Frog, they had them. With hope in my heart, I went to the shop, only to find it closed and with a grill over the window which made it impossible to view the goods on sale.
Undeterred, I returned Monday, and yes they had one, just the one I wanted.
After all these years of searching, the shop was less than 100 yards (metres) from the original shop I had seen all those years ago.
Sunday – Central London
Sunday was a hot, humid day in London, and I had to catch-up of arrangements for future courses, which meant a trip into Central London.
Whatever is said about the Mayor of London, Ken Livingston, he has made great differences in the scene and transportation systems of the UK capital. More people are using areas of London which only a few years ago were devoid of people, especially the South Bank. New eating places, places to relax, walk, run or have fun none exist.
Walking across the New Hungerford Bridge, linking Waterloo Railway Station, The Royal Festival Hall and the London Eye, to Charing Cross Railway Station and the Embankment, across the River Thames, the vista of London is there for all to see.
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Downstream Waterloo Bridge, with the nude men (click to see) standing guard either end, St Paul’s Cathedral behind and the new Gerkin building, and cranes indicating more construction underway.
Upstream, the London Eye, the Houses of Parliament, and i the distance, the MI5 building made famous by the James Bond film.
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In Covent Garden, a popular eating and meeting place, that once used to be the wholesale market for London’s fruit and vegetables. Here was a special celebration for the formation of Malaysia fifty years ago, and there were a variety of displays and dancers for the public to see.
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Today, Sunday, is a better day.
I have awoken early, and feel so much more alive. For the last few days I have been aching, my chest, my neck, my legs. Perhaps I do do too much, put too many hours into each twenty-four hours, trying to achieve too many things.
But, at long last I have the internet working. Me the computer “expert”, taking so long to solve the problem. I still cannot send emails via the new ISP, but that is something they will have to solve on Monday.
Today I well go into Central London to start the arrangements for the up and coming Stage Hypnosis Course in September.
It is a course I love. To take a participant who has never been hypnotised, and in two days get them on the evening of the last day on stage, having gained all the skills to perform a live stage hypnosis show.
That is gratifying, and has been for many years since Chanel 4 TV and Discovery Chanel filmed my course and shown it world-wide. To this day I am seen on TV, and people sign up now.
A restaurant very close to the flat of Norbiton Hall where I live, has recently opened its’ doors to business.
On the London Road, leaving Kingston upon Thames, is The Basil Diner, rather a strange name for a restaurant, but having Chinese writing over the door, one would presuppose this was a Chinese restaurant.
On entering the restaurant is clean and inviting, it seems always having an available table to choose from.
The waitress greets the guests with enthusiasm, and is eager to please. As does the management, who will take time to talk to the diners.
The first one has to know that this is a Malaysian cuisine restaurant, giving different tastes and ingredients to the traditional Chinese food. See the menu. click
From Wan Ton soup, pork and prawn dumplings in a clear soup with the green vegetable pak choi, or the Tom Yum hot and sour soup from Thailand, to Malaysian Mee Goreng, a stir fried noodle with chicken, fishcake, egg, garnished with coriander, chilli and lemon, the food is served in good portions, and the quality is the best.
For me I cannot take the taste or smell of the Sambal paste which seems to be a basic ingredient in the cooking of Malaysian cooking, and the curries play havoc with my stomach, so I keep clear of those. But there is plent to choose from.
Unlike traditional Malaysian or Chinese serving, the food is delivered on individual plates to each diner, so each person chooses their own meal. No sharing of the central dishes.
The tastes and cooking is traditional Malaysian, with the staff all originating from Malaysia.
Very good food, and good value for money.
On this occasion, apart from my food left-hand picture, and on the right of the of the right-hand picture, food was served in the center of the table for all to serve themselves.
The Basil Diner, London Road, Kingston upon Thames, UK
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Click here to see menu as of 8th June 2007.
This is the menu of The Basil Diner in Kingston upon Thames as of June 2007.
Very good food, Malaysian Chinese cuisine, at a reasonable price.
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The Basil Diner, London Road, Kingston upon Thames, UK, Tel:- 02085469757
Click here to see menu as of 8th June 2007.
ENJOY YOUR MEAL.
Phillip Holt, NLPNOW.
Can one tell the future?
For those that know me well. Look at my star forecast as in the Metro, a free newspaper in London, for Tuesday, 6th June 2007, my day of return from training courses in India.
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I wonder.